Hey Other Parents
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11 months ago

S1E26 - S01E026: Family Planning Decisions: Navigating Expectations & Tough Conversations

A Note To Our Listeners

This is going to be a different kind of episode for us at Hey Other Parents. On this episode we will be talking about some of our experiences with family planning. Some of these topics that we are discussing today can be triggering for some of our audience. Some of these topics may be triggering for us as well.

šŸŽ™ļø In This Episode:

Parenthood comes with a lot of expectationsā€”some from society, some from family, and some we place on ourselves. Join us as we discuss how to manage these pressures and focus on what really matters.

What We Cover:

šŸ¤” The Pressure to Be Perfect: How to let go of unrealistic expectations.

šŸ› ļø Parenting Your Way: Finding the confidence to do what works for your family.

šŸ‘¶ Handling Outside Opinions: Dealing with advice (wanted or not) from others.

šŸ˜‚ Funny Moments: Stories of when expectations didnā€™t match reality.

We are going to try our best to speak from our experiences in an effort to normalize the conversation around things such as:

  • difficulty in getting pregnant
  • high risk pregnancies
  • adoption
  • miscarriage and other hardships
  • pressure of having kids or having more kids
  • rainbow babies
  • tough choices when mother and baby are at risk
  • breast feeding pressures
  • Epidural complications
  • VSD (heart complications)
  • How to support friends and family through distress

While there are a number of positive areas of todayā€™s show, we want to be upfront with you at the top of the show because like us, each of us has our own experiences and works through difficulty and hard times in our own ways. In this episode more than ever, itā€™s the three of us and all of you.

Expectations of Expecting (Family Planning &

Hardships)

Time To Unplug

This week we are focusing on support this week through various articles relating to this week of Hey Other Parents. Don't forget the importance of checking in with friends and family.

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Article mentioned on show:

Please Stop Asking Me When Iā€™m Having Another Baby Hereā€™s why the question is terrible on so many levels. https://www.thebump.com/a/stop-asking-about-another-baby

Please Stop Asking If Iā€™m Going To Have More Babies https://theeverymom.com/please-stop-asking-me-if-i-want-another-baby/

Miscarriage, loss, and grief https://www.marchofdimes.org/find-support/topics/miscarriage-loss-and-grief

What is a Rainbow Baby? - American Pregnancy . ORG https://americanpregnancy.org/getting-pregnant/pregnancy-loss/what-is-a-rainbow-baby/

5 Ways to Support a Family Expecting a Rainbow Baby https://www.huffpost.com/entry/5-ways-to-support-a-family-expecting-a-rainbow-baby_b_7222608

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