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3 months ago

S1E20 - S01E020: Hello World! (Kids & Internet Safety)

Hello World! (Kids & Internet Safety)

This week we sit down to talk about when kids have access to the internet and apps. This is a big topic so this episode is a little bit longer. We hope that this provides some insight for you at home. We of course always value your input so please contact us at the show if you have anything that we might have missed, an opinion of our thoughts, or anything else for us to all think about.

In the beginning of the episode we discuss listener feedback about the Green Light Card for international travel. We always welcome this type of tip. This is particular about having your child travel to Europe and one way to track their spending and avoid international fees.

It’s been a long road from AOL instant messenger to Snap Chat. We discuss trying to help kids work through mistakes and the overwhelming group dynamics of group chats and more. When should you feel the need to monitor, when should you feel ok with backing off? What are some of the most important things that we feel about your child’s accounts and conversations that go in tandem. When can you have your child experience small mistakes so they can learn from them? What’s with Disney + making it so you have to enter the PIN number on the television? Can you have a family member work with you on monitoring? What about ghost accounts? Of course we talk about what it was like when we were younger, now with our own kids and what the supposed experts say. Raising kids truly is a four way game of tug of war, because it’s the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Avatar The Last Airbender (Netflix 2024)

Sara: DIY Wreath (Easter on Youtube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KjDb3eK-3Wc&t=1s

Mike: D&D Dice
Camp Pain D&D Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/camp-pain/id1725529161

Links:

Article mentioned on show 1. What To Know About Limiting Your Child’s Screen Time (NY TIMES) https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/24/technology/personaltech/what-to-know-about-limiting-your-childs-screen-time.html

2. I Monitor My Teens' Electronics, and You Should Too (wired.com) https://www.wired.com/story/parents-should-monitor-teens-electronics/

Additional Resources

Setting up Screen Time (Apple Products) https://support.apple.com/en-us/108806

Setting up Family Link (Android Products) https://support.google.com/families/answer/7101025?hl=en

How to recognize signs of distress in Children (UNICEF) https://www.unicef.org/parenting/child-care/how-to-recognize-signs-of-distress

Back to School: Know the Warning Signs of Bullying (Mayo Clinic) https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/back-to-school-know-the-warning-signs-of-bullying-2/

How to Turn Kids' Phones Off at Night (or Anytime, Really) (Common Sense Media) https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/how-to-turn-kids-phones-off-at-night-or-anytime-really

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4 months ago

S1E19 - S01E019: It's a Boy! (Raising Sons)

It’s a Boy! (Raising Sons)

This week we sit down to discuss what it’s like to have a boy and the expectations of others. We discuss soccer tears and a Slurpee, dealing with bullies, stuffed animals, “girlie shows”, She-Ra, boys and 90210, different hobbies between parents and kids, martial arts, group chats gone awry and those crazy tween emotions. Of course we talk about what it was like when we were younger, now with our own kids and what the supposed experts say. Raising kids truly is a four way game of tug of war, because it’s the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Cacio e Pepe Puffs (Trader Joe’s Chopsticks Optional)

Sara: Spotify DJ 

Mike: Halo Season 2 (Paramount Plus)

Links:

Raising boys to be good men. Here’s one way to do it https://www.cnn.com/2023/10/23/health/raising-boys-to-be-good-men-wellness/index.html

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4 months ago

S1E18 - S01E018: Mo Money Mo Problems (Chores & Allowances)

Orange Cream Roulette (Valentine’s Day)

This week we sit down to discuss Chores and Allowances. Some families package these topics together and some choose not to. Sara discusses cleaning Hummel figures, molding and cleaning until 5pm. We knew that when Saved by The Bell came on, it was time for chores. Do fake Adidas need to have 2 stripes? Michael shrinks his clothes at college. Mike discussed cleaning his room and Star Wars toys. We discuss teaching our kids about laundry, cash cards, green light, dividing and conquering and keeping that family Orange Tree alive. We discuss grocery store snacks for the person that helps, pocketing money for Star Wars toys and more! Of course we talk about chores & allowance when we were younger, now with our own kids and what the supposed experts say. Raising kids truly is a four way game of tug of war, because it’s the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Learning To Play Piano When There’s No Recital

Sara: Duolingo (Spanish + Creole)

Mike: Star Wars Micro Galaxy Squadron

Links:

The Ultimate List of Age-Appropriate Chores for Children and Teens https://childdevelopmentinfo.com/chores/the-ultimate-list-of-age-appropriate-chores/

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4 months ago

S1E17 - S01E017: Orange Cream Roulette (Valentine’s Day)

Orange Cream Roulette (Valentine’s Day)

This week we sit down to discuss Valentine’s Day. Where’s the hidden chocolate stash? Did someone see my coconut cream? What’s a Peach Kushan? We talk about what happened when we were younger, Sara’s first Valentine disaster with her future husband, unnecessary pressures of social media, video keepsakes, class valentine gifts, thinking of those less fortunate and what Pete The Cat can teach us about Valentine’s Day! We even discuss a Cookie Salad from Duff Goldman. Of course we talk about Valentine’s Day when we were younger, now with our own kids and what the supposed experts say. Raising kids truly is a four way game of tug of war, because it’s the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Crokinole Board

Sara: DeerRun 3 in 1 Folding Treadmills

Mike: Kids basketball hoop

Links:

12 Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day for Kids (Urbansitter.com) https://blog.urbansitter.com/12-ways-to-celebrate-valentines-day-with-your-kids/

Duff Goldman (Cookie Salad) Super Good Cookies for Kids https://www.harpercollins.com/products/super-good-cookies-for-kids-duff-goldman?variant=40824799723554

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4 months ago

S1E16 - S01E016: It’s a Girl! (Raising Daughters)

It’s a Girl! (Raising Daughters)

This week we sit down to discuss what it's like to raise daughters. Sara talks about growing up in with old fashioned expectations, ballet, not sweating, hidden outfits, girl chores and boy chores, women don't take out the garbage, mops and brooms for Christmas, helping raise strong girls, honesty about friend choices, and so much more. Raising kids truly is a four way game of tug of war, because it's the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Final Fantasy Pixel Remastered Collection on Steam Deck (also on Switch / PS5)

Sara: Bissell handheld steamer

Mike: NOCO Genius car battery starter

Links:

10 Tips To Help Dads and Daughters Stay Close https://childmind.org/article/10-tips-help-dads-daughters-stay-close/

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5 months ago

S1E15 - S01E015: Imperial Entanglements (The Star Wars Episode)

Imperial Entanglements! (Star Wars)

This week, Michael and Mike sit down to discuss an episode on Star Wars. How old should kids be, what is the best order to watch, what about the shows? We have so much to talk about and more! We discuss the It’s a Small World Ride, Star Wars Toys, Han Solo in Carbonite and pushing through the first 30 minutes so your kids are receptive to watching. We also discussed how a future trip to Disney helped get our family to watch some of the movies. Mike recommends a simple method… just keep it on in the background all the time! Is there a proper order to watch Star Wars in? The impact of Episode I on Lightsabers, which cartoons to watch before Ashoka & Mandolorian and so much more. So punch it Chewie, because it’s the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Nintendo Switch Online (Super Mario 2)

Mike: Godzilla Minus One

Links:

The Star Wars TV episodes to watch before The Mandalorian season 2 https://www.polygon.com/star-wars/2020/10/28/21536795/the-mandalorian-season-2-references-star-wars-clone-wars-rebels-watch-episodes

10 episodes of Star Wars to watch before Ahsoka https://www.space.com/ten-episodes-of-star-wars-to-watch-before-ahsoka

Overthinking the initiation into 'Star Wars' for our kids (CNN) https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/12/08/health/star-wars-go-ask-your-dad/index.html

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5 months ago

S1E14 - S01E014: Korean Rock City! (Adventurous Eating)

Korean Rock City! (Adventurous Eating)

This week, Michael, Mike & Sara sit down to discuss eating out with your family and getting away from the typical fare. We remember going to the Chinese Buffet, experiences with Lobster, 5lbs of Crawfish at Middendorf's, Red Beans & Rice, Oyster Roasts in South Carolina and more. Michael, Sara, and Mike take a trip to a Korean Hot Pot/Korean BBQ restaurant with some of our kids to experience new food first hand. Sophia convinces Julian to suck the head of the Crawfish, Lucas loves some Sushi and Jacob rocks the BBQ! Should we have listened to the waiter about the spicy broth? Should we tell Noah that Pancakes aren't really called "Panpapes"? So grab those chopsticks and remember that chickens don't have fingers, because it’s the three of us and all of you!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Finding 'Ohana (Netflix)

Sara: More difficult puzzles with large portions of similar design

Mike: Welcome to Wrexham (FX)

Links:

Middendorf's Restaurant https://middendorfsrestaurant.com/

How To Survive Eating Out With Your Kids https://www.forbes.com/sites/johnmariani/2022/02/10/how-to-survive-eating-out-with-your-kids/?sh=55e0e2819d21

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5 months ago

S1E13 - S01E013: Our Princess Is In Another Castle! (Video Game Night)

S01E013 Our Princess Is In Another Castle! (Video Game Night)

This week, Michael, Mike & Sara sit down to discuss video game night with the family. We have a full list of games to play with different ages of kids and number of people. Mike’s wife and Sara’s son both have foot injuries, Sara’s brother in a Pizza Hut during a robbery, Gauntlet, the Nintendo Power Pad, Barnes & Nobles magazine reading, arcade friends, and more. We discuss playing games with our own kids and Michael uses the word, shtick! See our list below for all the games discussed on this episode. So grab the controllers because it’s the three of us and all of you!

**Games That We Talked About **

-Party Games: Mario Party, Mario Kart, Trombone Champ, Big Brain Academy, Overcooked 2, What the Golf, Boomerang Fu, Rainbow, Smash Bros Ultimate, Switch Sports, Clubhouse Games, Jackbox Games (Drawful 2, Fibbage XL, Quiplash (These Jackbox Games are Available on AppleTV as well as consoles) -Couch Coop: Lovers in a Dangerous Time, Rayman Legends, Super Mario Wonder (instead of Super Mario U Deluxe), Super Mario 3D World, Minecraft, Snipper Clips, Unravel 2, Portal 2 (Co-Op Mode after you play campaign), Minecraft Dungeons, Animal Crossing -Pass The Controller: Donut County, A Short Hike -Older Ones: It Takes Two, Escape Academy -Oldest Ones: Diablo IV, Baldurs Gate 3 -VR Games: Beatsaber, Pistol Whip, Walkabout Mini Golf, Vader Immortal (lightsaber duels)

Time To Unplug

Michael: What Do You Meme? (Board Game)

Sara: First Wives Club (Netflix)

Mike: Frameo Picture Frames

Links:

Scientists Used Mario Game to Treat Depression. Here's What Happened https://www.mensjournal.com/news/mario-depression-nintendo

How video games teach us to fail — and why classrooms should too https://www.vox.com/ad/21302437/video-games-education-mastery-learning-failure-success

The benefits of videogames in learning https://www.iberdrola.com/talent/benefits-video-games-learning

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5 months ago

S1E12 - S01E012: Pack Up Baby One More Time! (Diaper Bags & Bigger Kids)

This week Mike and Sara sit down to discuss packing up the diaper bag and getting ready to leave the house. We have a full list that we can’t wait to talk about with you. The discussion includes what parents need, items related to changing, food, clothing, medical and so much more. We discuss watching Disney rides on YouTube, Ethan speaks to a real video game designer and more. We even take a peak at what the bigger kids might need for those days out and about. So get that periwinkle blue diaper bag out because it’s time to leave that judgment at the door!

Time To Unplug

Michael: What If? (Season Two Disney+)

Sara: Igloo Dining

Links:

Diaper Bag Checklist: What to Pack in a Diaper Bag https://www.thebump.com/a/how-to-pack-your-diaper-bag

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5 months ago

S1E11 - S01E011: Seacrest Out! (New Years Resolutions)

This week we are sitting down to discuss New Year’s Day and those pesky Resolutions. Michael loses his throne as the big bad of Mario Kart with this family! We talk getting ready for New Years night when we were younger. Getting those Growing Up Carmen cards ready because we have Cinnamon Baths! We discuss grapes at midnight, Dim Sum with strangers, freezing at the beach for tossing away negativity, and superpower necklaces. Sara’s husband has a checklist system for his goal setting. We break down those big resolutions into smaller more attainable goals. So toss out those snacks, drink some water, grab those apples, because we are getting ready for our New Years Resolutions!

Time To Unplug

Michael: Percy Jackson (Disney+ 2023)

Sara: Journaling (5 Below Pick A Journal)

Mike: Rebel Moon (Netflix 2023)

Links:

Healthy New Year's Resolutions for Children & Teens https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/family-dynamics/Pages/Healthy-New-Years-Resolutions-for-Kids.aspx

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