S4E9 - S04E009: Big Milestones, Bigger Pressure — Party or Trip?
🎙️ Hey Other Parents — S04E009: Big Milestones, Bigger Pressure?
This week we’re talking about big milestone celebrations — Bar Mitzvahs, Sweet 16s, and Quinceañeras — and the quiet pressure that comes with them.
Are we throwing the party our kids actually want… or the one we feel expected to throw?
We look back at the milestone events we attended as kids — the fancy ones, the overwhelming ones, the ones where we felt left out — and then shift to what it feels like being the parent who now has to plan (and pay). From social media comparison to invisible competition, we ask the uncomfortable question: are we creating a memory for our child… or proving something to other adults?
We explore big parties vs. big trips, what “big” really means, and how to ask better
