HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E010: Fierce Intimacy (Part 1): Why We Argue the Way We Do

📅 End of Season 3

This is our Season 3 finale! We’re taking a short break and will be back with Season 4 on December 12th. Thanks for spending another season with us — we seriously love hanging out with you every week.

🎙️ In This Episode:

We’re kicking off our Fierce Intimacy book club with the first half of Terry Real’s relationship guide — the one that makes you stop mid-argument and go, “Oh… that’s me, isn’t it?” We dig into the big ideas from Sessions 1–3, like why we slip into shame or grandiosity during conflict, how our old “adaptive child” reactions still show up as adults, and the five losing strategies that keep couples stuck in the same fight on loop.

We talk about the parts we had to reread (because ouch), what clicked instantly, and what it actually looks like to step away responsibly without storming off or shutting down. It’s honest, humbling, and very us — messy, real, and full of those moments where you realize you’re not the only one trying to repair on the fly while raising kids.

❓ Question of the Week

What was your biggest takeaway from the first half of Fierce Intimacy?

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📚 Book Club Reminder

We’re reading Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real for the Hey Other Parents Book Club! This episode covers Sessions 1–3 (through Chapter 26).

⏰ Time to Unplug

Michael: Stranger Things – Season 1

Sara: Wayward (Netflix)

Mike: Predator: Badlands

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E009: Surviving Family Travel Without Losing Your Mind

🎙️ In This Episode: Family vacations are supposed to be relaxing… right? Between sunrise departures, overstuffed suitcases, and kids asking “Are we there yet?” before you leave the driveway, traveling with kids can feel like a full-contact sport.

This week on Hey Other Parents, we’re talking all about the genius (and sometimes chaotic) tricks parents use to survive family travel — from the nostalgic road trips of our childhood to the hyper-organized, packing-cube-powered adventures of today.

We swap chaos stories, compare travel styles (the ultra-planned Stallone trips vs. the “wing it and pray” Levine adventures), and debate which era of family travel was truly more stressful. Because whether you’re the family who packs a week in advance or the one sprinting through the airport with a stroller and a half-eaten muffin, this episode’s for you.

❓ Question of the Week What’s your most chaotic family travel story — the one you can laugh about now (but definitely couldn’t then)?

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📚 Book Club Reminder Don’t forget — we’re reading Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real for the Hey Other Parents Book Club! Make sure to listen to or read the first half before Episode 10, when we’ll start unpacking it together on the show.

⏰ Time to Unplug

• Michael: Dungeon Crawler Carl (Audiobook)
• Sara: The Magnus Archives (Podcast)
• Mike: LEGO Game Boy build

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E008: Naming a Baby Without Starting a Family Feud

🎙️ In This Episode:

Naming a baby is no small task. From family traditions to pop culture influences, choosing the “right” name can feel like walking through a minefield — one full of strong opinions, veto lists, and more unsolicited suggestions than anyone ever asked for.

This week on Hey Other Parents, we’re talking all about the first — and likely most stressful — parenting decision: naming your baby… without setting off a full-blown family debate.

From grandparents lobbying for family names to friends “calling dibs,” we share our own stories, the pressures we felt, and the moments that made us laugh years later. Because naming a baby isn’t just about what sounds good on paper — it’s about identity, legacy, and learning to trust your gut, even when everyone around you has thoughts.

❓ Question of the Week What baby name arguments did you have — and how did you solve them?

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📚 Book Club Reminder Don’t forget — we’re reading Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real for the Hey Other Parents Book Club! Make sure to listen to or read the first half before Episode 10, when we’ll start unpacking it together on the show.

⏰ Time to Unplug Because parents deserve their own fun too:

• Michael: Quest 3 adventures
• Sara: Alice in Borderland on Netflix
• Mike: Chili’s Nachos (yes, Chili’s yoooo! — it was Margarita Night, no regrets)

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E007: This Isn’t the Parenting We Grew Up With… (Millennial Pressures of Raising Kids in 2025)

🎙️ In This Episode:

This week, we’re talking all about what it means to raise kids right now — in a world that looks nothing like the one we grew up in.

Even from the time our kids were babies until now, so much has changed. Every generation has faced its own version of “hard,” but millennial parents are juggling a whole new mix — from nonstop work expectations and rising costs to tech-filled classrooms, social media stress, and a constant feeling that we’re supposed to be doing it all.

We’ll talk about how the optics around parenting have changed — how it’s not just what we do as parents, but how it looks online, at school, and even to other parents. And maybe, just maybe, it’s time to ask whether changing our approach isn’t such a terrible idea after all.

So let’s do some reflecting, ease up on the guilt, and give ourselves a little grace in 2025.

Because on Hey Other Parents, it’s an honest discussion about raising kids. I’m Michael Heit, I’m Sara D, and I’m Mike Levine. ❓ Question of the Week What differences do you see now as a parent compared to when you were a kid?

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⏰ Time to Unplug Because parents deserve their own fun too:

• Michael: Wednesday, Season 2 – Part 2
• Sara: Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story — absolutely no kids allowed, and maybe some eye bleach after.
• Mike: Star Wars: Visions Volume 3

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E006: Hey Mom… The Meatloaf (Family Recipes & Stories That Live On)

🎙️ In This Episode:

This week, we’re talking all about how food keeps our families connected — not just through the meals we share, but through the stories, memories, and love that come with them.

This episode was inspired by Umma: A Korean Mom’s Kitchen Wisdom and 100 Family Recipes — a beautiful reminder that recipes aren’t just instructions, they’re stories of love, culture, and connection passed from one generation to the next.

We’re diving into the dishes that do more than feed us — the ones that remind us who we are, where we come from, and the people who taught us how to cook in the first place. From handwritten cookbooks to traditions passed down by taste and memory, these are the meals that carry our families forward.

Michael shares the cookbook his mom made him when he left for college — a simple gift that turned into a lifelong reminder of home. Sara opens up about cooking with her dad and how one special dessert became their way of reconnecting. And Mike reflects on teaching his kids to cook (and the creative chaos that comes with it). Together, we explore how food preserves culture, love, and legacy — and what recipes we hope our own kids will carry on.

❓ Question of the Week What’s a family recipe that means the world to you — and what story comes with it? Was it passed down, improvised, or rescued from an old notebook?

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What We Cover:

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🍽️ Then (Childhood Lens)

• The meals that defined growing up — mom’s “Heit-ie chicken,” dad’s apple pie, and lasagna that only tasted right when made by family.
• Remembering the cooks who never measured, but somehow made everything perfect.
• Why certain dishes still transport us back home with one bite.

👨‍👩‍🍳 Now (Parenting Lens)

• Teaching kids that cooking is about love, not perfection.
• The next generation remixing family favorites — Alfredo, Birria, rice and beans, and more.
• What food teaches about patience, creativity, and connection.
• The beauty (and occasional chaos) of kids helping in the kitchen — from cracked eggs to flour explosions.

❤️ Family Recipe Confessions

• Dishes we “pretend” to make from scratch.
• Family recipes we’ve totally ruined but still serve with pride.
• The meals our kids refuse to eat — but everyone else swears by.

🥣 The Takeaway Every recipe tells a story. We may forget the measurements, but we never forget how it made us feel. 📚 Book Club Reminder Don’t forget — our Hey Other Parents Book Club pick is Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real. We’ll be diving into what it really means to fight for your relationship instead of in it.

👉 Homework for Listeners: Listen to or read the first half of the book before Episode 10, when we’ll start unpacking it together on the show!

⏰ Time to Unplug Because parents deserve their own fun too:

• Michael: The Studio – Seth Rogen
• Sara: Taking 30 minutes at the start and end of each day for herself — coffee, journaling, or a quiet walk
• Mike: Task on HBO – a gripping new crime drama series

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E006: 13 Relationship Rules That Help Avoid Blowouts

🎙️ In This Episode:

This week, we’re stepping away from parenting tips and diving into something just as important—keeping our relationships strong.

Arguments are normal in any marriage or partnership, but sometimes it’s the simplest of unspoken rules that help avoid blowouts over the little stuff. From thermostat wars to fridge fights, we’re talking about the creative strategies couples use to stay grounded, keep perspective, and remember they’re on the same team.

Sara shares a beautiful reflection on loving your partner through all the seasons of life—because you’ll both change, and that’s okay. And Mike Levine talks about a powerful anniversary tradition where he and his wife look back on the good times, the bad times, and the okay times—a ritual that helps them appreciate their journey together.

❓ Question of the Week What’s an unspoken rule in your relationship that helps keep the peace?

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What We Cover:

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💬 Then (Childhood Lens)

• How conflict looked when we were kids—silent treatments, shouting matches, or calm conversations.
• What we learned (or didn’t learn) from watching our parents argue.
• The moments that shaped how we now handle tension in our own homes.

❤️ Now (Parenting Lens)

• Why small arguments can feel bigger when you’re juggling parenting.
• How to stay patient, listen, and avoid keeping score.
• The importance of saying “I” instead of “you” and knowing when to step back.
• Fighting for your relationship instead of in your relationship.

📚 Fierce Intimacy Preview Later this season, we’ll be reading Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real—a book that challenges couples to stop fighting for themselves and start fighting for each other. Grab a copy if you’d like to read along!

⏰ Time to Unplug Because parents deserve their own fun too:

• Michael: Discovering surprise meals through the TooGoodToGo app
• Sara: Midweek date nights at Casita RD (Baldwin) and BK9 (Brooklyn)
• Mike: Celebrating 28 years later!!!

Because you’ll be a better we if you take care of me.

🔗 Future Hey Other Parents Book Club - Fierce Intimacy by Terry Real

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Quick Message

🎙️ Hey everyone! Quick heads-up — I goofed when editing Episode 5 (The Grandparent Episode). Around the 30-minute mark, the audio gets a little out of sync, and it sounds like we’re all talking over each other.

If you downloaded the episode before Saturday, October 4th, just re-download Episode 5 and you’ll be all set!

Thanks for rolling with us — and as always, don’t forget to hug your kids and charge those Chromebooks. 💻💙 Enjoy the day, everyone!

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E004: The Grandparent Episode: Love, Boundaries, and Clashes

🎙️ In This Episode:

This week, we’re talking all about grandparents—the love, the spoiling, the traditions, and yes…the clashes. From too many sweets and outdated advice to “back in my day” comparisons, we’re diving into what happens when well-meaning grandparents sometimes forget to pass the parenting torch back to us.

We’ll share our own stories, talk about generational differences, and explore how to set boundaries with love—because keeping the peace with family doesn’t have to mean losing your sanity. ❓ Question of the Week What is the funniest or most frustrating “grandparent move” you’ve experienced?

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👵 Then (Childhood Lens)

• The magic we loved about grandparents: spoiling, freedom, family traditions.
• The things we didn’t notice as kids (but our parents sure did).

👨‍👩‍👧 Now (Parenting Lens)

• How grandparent quirks hit differently once we’re the parents.
• Too much sugar, endless toys, ignoring routines, outdated advice.
• The tension of wanting kids to have magical grandparent experiences—without undermining parenting.

⚡ Generational Clash

• Why these differences exist (era, culture, parenting style).
• Which clashes are harmless, and which ones cause real friction.

💬 Boundaries With Love

• How to set boundaries without making it a battle.
• Framing limits as protecting relationships, not laying down laws.
• Remembering to stay grateful, even in the tough moments.

⏰ Time to Unplug Because parents deserve their own fun too:

• Michael: AirPods Translate (English ↔ Spanish beta—wild!)
• Sara: Using ChatGPT for outfit ideas (faster than Pinterest scrolling)
• Mike: Rediscovering Linkin Park & music nostalgia

🔗 Links & Resources

• The Biggest Grandparenting Mistakes – BuzzFeed

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E003: Parenting Hacks… We Have Questions

🎙️ In This Episode:

This week we’re diving into the weird, wild world of parenting hacks—the ones that felt totally normal when we were kids, and the ones we’ve tried (or sworn off) as parents ourselves.

Inspired by a BuzzFeed list of bizarre and brilliant “hacks,” we’re sharing stories that range from monster spray and mayonnaise remedies to Santa’s OSHA compliance rules. Some are genius, some are questionable, and some are… probably therapy fodder.

We’ll cover:

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👶 When We Were Kids: “Wait… That Was Normal?”

• The childhood hacks our parents swore by (and the ones that make us shake our heads now).
• From Vicks on everything to car lights = jail time.

👨‍👩‍👧 Now That We’re Parents: Hacks, Lies & Survival Tactics

• Which “creative solutions” we’ve inherited, which ones we’ve invented, and which ones we refuse to repeat.
• Tooth Fairy threats, Santa hotlines, toy jail, and snack stations.

⚡ Rapid Fire Hacks

• Netflix in Greek = bedtime.
• Ice cream truck music = out of ice cream.
• Whining is illegal in Cape Cod.
• The pet fish are secret Santa spies.
• Bedtime tickets, broccoli muscle checks, Gmail time capsules, and more!

❓ Question of the Week What’s the strangest parenting hack you’ve heard—or tried? Did it actually work, or was it total chaos?

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• Michael: Owala 40oz tumbler (perfect for powdered drink mixes)
• Sara: Better Me Pilates program
• Mike: Borderlands 4 frustrations (lag + choppy PC issues)

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S03E002: Mourning the Aging Kiddo

🎙️ In This Episode:

Parenting means growing up right alongside your kids—and sometimes, that growth stings. This week, we’re unpacking the bittersweet ache of letting go: when your child walks into school without looking back, chooses friends over trick-or-treating with you, or suddenly decides they’re “too old” to snuggle.

We’ll share the mix of pride and grief that sneaks up on parents, why independence feels like a hidden kind of goodbye, and how to reframe those moments as both loss and opportunity. What We Cover: •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

💔 The Hidden Grief of Growing Up

• The first times our kids pulled away—from school drop-offs to bedtime routines.
• Why milestones feel like small goodbyes that pile up over time.

💡 Pride vs. Pain

• Celebrating independence while coping with the ache it leaves behind.
• Real parent stories: from learning to cook alone to shutting the bedroom door.

🤝 Coping & Connection

• Practical ways to reconnect as kids grow older.
• Reframing independence as proof you’ve done your job well.
• Why it’s important for parents to fill their own cup, too.

✨ Reflection

• “They outgrow your lap, but not your love”—why independence is both hard and beautiful.

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