🎙️ Hey Other Parents — S05E006: Working Moms in America (The Balance Myth)

This week, we’re talking about working moms—and the pressure to somehow do it all. Show up at work like you don’t have kids, show up at home like you don’t have a job, and somewhere in between try to create perfect moments, make every event, and keep it all together. We get real about the myth of balance, the guilt, the double standards, and why it can feel like no matter what you do, you’re falling short somewhere. This isn’t a “how-to” episode—it’s an honest look at what it actually feels like to live in that space, and why maybe balance isn’t the goal at all. 

❓ Question of the Week:

What do you want your partner to understand about work-life balance?

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🔌 Parenting Unplugged:

* Sara D: Big Mistakes on Netflix (Dan Levy)

* Mike Levine: Baseball game + Star Wars bobblehead night

* Michael Heit: How-2-Escape (Switch / phone / PC / Mac)

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Hey Other Parents Episode #74 overall.

Edited and mixed by Michael Heit.

Intro voiceover by Koltrane.

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S05E005: Talk Less. Connect More.

This week, we’re getting real about something we all do—talking at our kids instead of actually connecting with them. Because somewhere between asking questions, giving advice, and trying to “help,” our conversations start to feel like lectures… and kids shut down fast.

We break down why that happens, what better conversations actually look like, and how small shifts—like timing, tone, and just letting silence sit—can completely change the way our kids open up. From car ride confessions to one-word answers, this episode is all about creating space where kids actually want to talk.

🎧 Parenting Unplugged:

Heit: Secrets of a Passionate Marriage — Secrets of a Passionate Marriage

Sara: The Housemaid — a thriller that’s perfect for folding laundry

Levine: Monarch: Legacy of Monsters on Apple TV

📞 Join the Conversation: What do you want to see your kids doing independently without being asked?

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🎙️ This is Episode 75 of Hey Other Parents — an honest discussion about raising kids.

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🎙️ S05E004: Kids & Taking Initiative (Wilson… I’m Sorry)

This week, we’re talking about why kids struggle to take initiative—and whether we might be part of the reason why. From stepping in too quickly to structuring every moment, we explore how good intentions can accidentally take away the very opportunities kids need to figure things out on their own. Inspired by everything from Bluey to Cast Away, this episode is all about learning when to step back, let them struggle, and trust that they’ll get there—even if it’s uncomfortable to watch.

💬 Question of the Week

What do you want to see your kids doing independently without being asked?

🔌 Parenting Unplugged

Heit: Severance Season 1SaraD: Imperfect Women (Apple TV+)Levine: Anaconda

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🎧 Episode Info

This is S05E004 of Hey Other Parents Episode 72 — an honest discussion about raising kids. New episodes drop Fridays.

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Hey Other Parents S05E003: I’m Bored. What Is This Feeling!?!

“I’m bored.” It hits differently now. We grew up with “Do you know where your children are?”, after-school specials like Punky Brewster, faces on milk cartons, and a completely irrational fear of quicksand… and did that impact us with our own kids?

This week, we’re talking about what boredom used to look like, what changed, and whether kids today have lost the ability to just be bored. Are we overscheduling them… or are we just uncomfortable letting them sit with themselves? Because learning how to be bored might actually be one of the most important skills we can give our kids.

🎧 Parenting Unplugged

SaraD: The ‘Burbs (remake series with Keke Palmer)—a fun watch

Levine: Star Wars: Maul – Shadow Lord (Disney+)

Heit: Super Mario Galaxy

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Are your kids comfortable being bored… or do they need constant stimulation?

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🎙️ This is Episode 72 of Hey Other Parents — an honest discussion about raising kids.

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Hey Other Parents S05E002: So You Gave Your Kid a Phone… Now What? (The PH Word)

Giving your kid a phone feels like a big step—and maybe a risky one. This week, we’re talking about when it actually feels right to hand one over, what we’re really worried about (social pressure, exposure, bullying, and losing control), and how we try to balance safety with independence. We get into setting boundaries, checking in without hovering, and what happens when things go wrong—both with your own kid and others. Because let’s be honest… once the phone enters the picture, everything changes.

🎧 Parenting Unplugged

SaraD: The story of JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette—so good

Levine: March Madness… and appetizers

Heit: Stranger Things: The First Shadow—what it might reveal about Season 5, plus thoughts on Henry and how it all connects

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What is your biggest concern as parents about handing off the phone to your kid?

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🎙️ This is Episode 71 of Hey Other Parents — an honest discussion about raising kids.

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S05E001: The Little Things We Do as Parents (That No One Notices)

This week, we’re kicking off Season 5 by focusing on the small, everyday ways we show love as parents—the things that don’t make it to Instagram but matter the most. From cutting fruit and charging devices to quiet emotional support and late-night check-ins, we’re talking about the invisible work that defines parenting. Because sometimes, it’s the little things that mean everything. 

🔌 Parenting Unplugged:

Heit: Pokémon Pokopia

Sara: Dinosaurs (Netflix Documentary)

Levine: Turok Collection (Switch)

❓ Question of the Week:

What are the small things you do to show love as a parent?

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HEY OTHER PARENTS – S04E010: We Don’t Know Everything… Shocking Right? (S4 Finale)

🎙️ In This Episode:

It’s the Season Four finale — and we’re ending it with a little humility.

Sara D kicks things off by putting Heit and Levine to the test in a Dad vs. Dad parenting quiz. From developmental milestones to everyday parenting scenarios (plus a little pop culture to bring it home), confidence quickly meets reality.

After the quiz, we shift into a real conversation about the things we’ve had to learn on the fly — what made us uncomfortable at first, what’s gotten easier over time, what’s gotten harder as the kids grow, and the things we’ve accepted we may never fully figure out.

Parenting has a funny way of reminding us that we’re all still learning.

This wraps up Season Four! We’ll be back in March to kick off Season Five — and we’d love your input. What topics, questions, or conversations do you want to hear next?

🔌 Parenting Unplugged:

Heit: Shrinking (Season 3)

Sara D: Industry

Levine: The Olympics

❓ Question of the Week

What would you like to hear in Season Five of Hey Other Parents?

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This is S04E010 — Episode 69 of Hey Other Parents, an honest discussion about raising kids.

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🎙️ Hey Other Parents — S04E009: Big Milestones, Bigger Pressure?

This week we’re talking about big milestone celebrations — Bar Mitzvahs, Sweet 16s, and Quinceañeras — and the quiet pressure that comes with them.

Are we throwing the party our kids actually want… or the one we feel expected to throw?

We look back at the milestone events we attended as kids — the fancy ones, the overwhelming ones, the ones where we felt left out — and then shift to what it feels like being the parent who now has to plan (and pay). From social media comparison to invisible competition, we ask the uncomfortable question: are we creating a memory for our child… or proving something to other adults?

We explore big parties vs. big trips, what “big” really means, and how to ask better questions so your child feels seen instead of pressured. Because a milestone doesn’t need an audience to count.

If your kid looks back and remembers feeling loved, relaxed, and understood… you did it right.

🔌 Parenting Unplugged

Heit: Dungeon Crawler Carl by Matt Dinniman (Book 2 & 3)

Sara: The Servants of Twilight (Dean Koontz audiobook)

Levine: Trying something new — Top Golf

❓ Question of the Week

Do you prefer a big party or a big trip?

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This is S04E009: Hey Other Parents Episode 065 — an honest discussion about raising kids.

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🎙️ Hey Other Parents — S04E008: AI and Parenting: What Kids Need From Us Now (feat. Liam)

This week, we’re talking about AI — what it is, what it isn’t, and how parents can help their kids use it without panic or blind trust. What starts as a funny attempt to let AI solve a simple parenting problem quickly turns into a bigger conversation about cheating vs. learning, critical thinking, and why “AI knows everything” is a dangerous assumption.

We’re joined by special guest Liam, who brings a student perspective to how AI is actually being used in school (not just how adults think it’s being used). We break down the good, the bad, and the lazy uses of AI, why better prompts matter, and why this technology isn’t going anywhere — making guidance far more useful than avoidance.

This episode is about curiosity over fear, helping kids think for themselves, and learning how to navigate AI as a tool instead of treating it like magic.

🔌 Parenting Unplugged

• Heit: Fantasy Life i: The Girl Who Stole Time (co-op with Liam)

• Sara: The Rip (Matt Damon & Ben Affleck)

• Levine: 100Hz Insignia monitor

❓ Question of the Week

How do you feel about AI right now — excited, nervous, or totally unsure? How are you handling it with your kids?

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This is S04E008: Hey Other Parents Episode 064 — an honest discussion about raising kids.

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🎙️ HEY OTHER PARENTS – Date Night Doesn’t Have to Be Dinner!

This week, we’re talking about date night — and why it doesn’t have to revolve around going out to dinner to count.

We dig into the idea that the real goal isn’t the restaurant, the reservation, or the perfect plan — it’s spending time together. Whether it’s a quick window between responsibilities or something totally unplanned, connection matters more than the setting.

From chaotic restaurant dates gone wrong to creative, low-pressure ways to reconnect, this episode is about zooming out and focusing on the bigger picture: being together.

🎧 In This Episode, We Talk About:

• Why dinner doesn’t have to be the centerpiece of date night

• Short, low-pressure dates that still feel meaningful

• Creative alternatives to restaurants

• Making the most of limited time

• Romantic vs. practical connection

• Multi-part dates and daytime options

• The planner vs. non-planner dynamic

• When it’s okay to leave the kids — and when it’s not

🔌 Parenting Unplugged

• Heit:

Fallout – Season 2

• Sara: Planners (Hobonichi dupes & Sunee planners)

• Levine:

World of Warcraft — Next Expansion & Player Housing update

❓ Question of the Week

What’s a creative, fun, or unexpectedly great date you’ve been on that didn’t revolve around going out to eat?

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🎧 New episodes drop Fridays.

This is S04E007: Hey Other Parents Episode 063 — an honest discussion about raising kids.

Thanks for hanging out with us this week. Hug your kids, charge those Chromebooks, and we’ll see you next time on Hey Other Parents.

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